Daily·Beginner·August 3, 2025·1 min read

밥 먹었어요? — Did you eat?

Koreans don't say 'How are you?' — they ask if you've eaten. Here's why this one question says everything about Korean culture.

You bump into a coworker in the hallway at 2pm.

Instead of "How's it going?" she asks:

"밥 먹었어요?"

She's not checking your nutrition. In Korea, asking if someone has eaten is one of the most natural ways to show you care about them. It's warmth, wrapped in a simple question.

The words

Romanizationbap
Meaningrice / meal
💡 In Korean, '밥' means both cooked rice and a meal in general. 밥 먹다 = to eat a meal.
먹었어요
Romanizationmeogeosseoyo
Meaningdid you eat / have you eaten
💡 Past tense of 먹다 (to eat). Casual version: 먹었어? — used with close friends.

Hear it in action

Hallway check-in

Office corridor, just past lunchtime

A
A
밥 먹었어요?
Did you eat?
B
B
아직이요. 지금 가려고요.
Not yet. I was about to go now.
A
A
같이 가요!
Let's go together!

Cultural note

This question is so embedded in Korean daily life that it crosses all kinds of relationships — between friends, colleagues, family members, even strangers who see you looking tired.

If someone asks and you say you haven't eaten, there's a decent chance they'll offer to feed you. It's not just small talk. It's an opening.

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